sometimes it doesn't seem like you care..

so for the past couple weeks, my mom has been talking about buying a roundtrip ticket for my older brother and niece so that they can come stay a week with us (they live in Arizona, we live in Oklahoma), because my brother really wants us to see Leannah since we haven't seen her in over a year.  well, hearing this, of course i'm superrrr excited!  so i text Romona today telling her "my mom's gonna buy a roundtrip ticket so that steven and leannah can stay for a week".  now, she knew before this that my brother was thinking about bringing her here, didn't seem like a bid deal at the time to her.  anyways, so she texts me back saying "i'll have to think about it.  steven hasn't shown me enough responsibility to take her out of state for that long"  okay, so then i get really pissed off.  i know my brother isn't the most responsible person in the world, but it's not like he's going to lose her on the bus ride here.  she's our family too, it's not like any of us are going to let something bad happen to her.  >__<  we just want to see her, and sometimes it seems like romona doesn't care that we don't see her.  i wish she knew what it was like to be in this position.  u.u